Judgmental

I know I might be deviating from the main subject which is the story between the guy and I. yet actually what I am going to talk about is incorporated in the issue. the case am handling is "JUDGEMENT". a lot of people rely on the first impression they get when meeting someone. And from my point of view this is totally wrong. I can see someone, and think he/she is self-centred, or funny, or stubborn, etc. But this doesn't mean that my impression is correct. It might in some cases be right, of course, yet in other times it's just WRONG. so why treat someone relying on first impression?! in my opinion, treat everyone in a good way, if you later discovered that they aren't that good enough, or not your type, or you can't stand, DONNOT totally ignore them. Yet just treat them superficially. There's a major difference between our prejudice and decency. I might hate someone, yet I treat them nicely. there's a difference. 

hatred has spread out a lot these days. I hear people saying: I hate him/her. I ask for the reason and I find you can say non sense. Crap, just crap that has been said. 
Another thing that really bugs me. Rumours!!! people spread rumours, I can accept that, gossipy is very tasty and it's a human feature. Yet what make me angry is that they believe their own gossipy and deal with it as it was a true fact!!! it's like I invent a lie and then believe it and live with it!! this is lunacy, I guess. people love to ruin others reputation. If a person is known to be well mannered. they do their best to ruin him/her!!
I just wonder why! this happened to me. people spread rumours about me a lot. And they judge me wrongly. And when the truth is revealed they refuse to admit it. 
Also, the GUY. I heard some shocking things that had been spread about him. I didn't believe it of course. Yet I also did the best I could do to discover the truth. few were right and the rest were wrong!! well I guess that's all what's in my mind!! I just needed to talk about it because I was truly mad!! hope people think in a more reasonable way!!!